Speed dating and weird questions

Watch out people! I passed my driver's license exam. On a same day, on Wednesday, I left to drive on my own. It was quite scary but I made it alive. Now I have to drive about month on my own and then go back to driving school to get some extra lessons and have a group lesson where they're trying to demonstrate group pressure. Maybe in a year I will at least have my final license.

Recently I bumped into speed dating and I started to think what kinda questions you should be asking from that unfamiliar person who's sitting opposite of you. I found this website uk.askmen.com where there were ten questions for men to ask from women during a speed date.

I don't know much about speed dating and I probably wouldn't go on one, but I think it is a brilliant way to know immediately would that person actually be interesting and could your lives go along each other. For example a question about kids: 

Number 7
Do you want or do you have any children?Ahh, children. Depending on your personal goals, this question could very well be the deal-breaker.

Like the website said this might be the big deal-breaker and funny thing is that in a non-speed-dating relationship start you wouldn't ask those kinda things at the beginning. For some it actually might be a reason why they break up. Others want kids and others don't but is it worth it that you wait for months before you even find out that in the end you want different things? I'm sorry for my straightness but I've made mistakes like that. In the end I realize that it cannot work.

Other thing in starting a relationship is the importance of communicating and having fights. This might sound weird but I actually kinda wait fro the first fight. I'm not looking for trouble but I want to know that we can get through tough times and manage to solve things and compromise. Am I the only one who thinks like this? I know I am a bit different and weird but it would be great not to be the only one thinking like this.


I am just like the girl in this song. A Restless Girl.

KESÄ SUMMER SOMMAR

Summer is all on. And while everybody else is outside having fun and enjoying the summer, I'm inside working. I am very lucky to have a job and I actually enjoy working. I'm a waitress/cleaner/someone-who-does-anything-that's-needed in a sushi restaurant, HankoSushi. Sometimes it doesn't even feel work because of the coworkers. There are people from all around the world; Estonia, Pakistan, China and Ukraine and I can speak English almost all the time, except for the customers. 

Couple nights back I got to spend an awesome night with few of my friends watching Pirates of the Caribbean. Well we watched the first two and then continued to sauna. There were three girls and one guy in the sauna. Recently I participated into a survey made by HS (the biggest Finnish news paper) where they wanted to know what people thought about going to sauna with the opposite gender (sekasaunominen). I told them that I have been in sauna with males and there's nothing weird about it. I recon that mix gender sauna is part of the Finnish culture and it can never be removed.

Sauna is a sacred place at some level for me at least and like we talked couple days ago with my friends we came up with this interesting observation. Although we act pretty sexually (if I may say) towards each other, with a sense of humor of course, the behavior stopped immediately we got to the sauna and showering facilities.

Tomorrow I am off to a friends summer cottage with three guys and two girls. I'm really excited and I bet it's gonna be great. If I continue with the last subject we have been talking about going to sauna all together and I trust my friends so there won't be any awkward situations. I think the most important thing in going into sauna with the opposite gender is to create the most comfortable atmosphere so everyone would feel okay with themselves.

Sorry I'm a bit late with all these photos but rather now than never.

What is better than more or less drunk people playing soccer? D-cup was all on on the third last day of school. Unfortunately because I twisted my ankle the day before while playing basketball I wasn't able to attend and we had to get a replacement in our team. 

Our awesome team!

Kesäkorva, Summer Festival we have at school where we have heaps of bands, food for free, candyfloss and popcorn! It's always great except my friend and I had our ankles twisted..

I went to see my little brothers soccer game but unfortunately his knee quit so he had to step aside after 45 minutes.

Isn't he cute!? He's my little summer-man :)